Giving and receiving critique
Read together
Good critique helps a work grow. It is specific, kind and useful, not just praise or put-downs.
Receiving critique takes courage: listen first, then decide what to use.
Do it
- Share a drawing, song or piece of writing with a trusted person.
- Ask them for one thing that works, one question, and one suggestion.
- Listen without defending. Write down what you hear.
- Then give the same three kinds of feedback on their work.
Talk about it
- What suggestion will you use?
- How did it feel to hear it?
For the grown-up
Critique is a life skill. Model receiving feedback graciously yourself. Proverbs speaks of wise people welcoming correction (for example Proverbs 12:1); that is a labelled summary to check.
Where this comes from
- Lerman, L., and Borstel, J., Liz Lerman's Critical Response Process (Dance Exchange, 2003)
- Book of Proverbs 12:1 (any standard translation)
Written with AI assistance and checked against the sources listed. Please read it before sharing it with a child.